Finding Your Style in a Life of Movement
- Christine Lusk
- 3 days ago
- 4 min read
It's Guest Blog Time!
Growing up wearing a school uniform meant that fashion was always something of a mystery to me. While other kids were developing their personal style, I was donning the same royal blue jumper and white collared shirt day after day. When I finally had the freedom to choose my own clothes, I found myself adrift in a sea of trends I didn't understand and styles that never quite felt like "me."
Fast forward to our life in the Foreign Service and I am still stumbling along with a mish-mash closet. Moving every few years, and my wardrobe became a confusing amalgamation of pieces from different climates, Marine Corps Balls, and versions of myself. I've packed and unpacked closets more times than I can count, always struggling with the same question: "Should I keep this because I might wear it again someday?" That "someday" rarely comes, yet I've dragged clothes across continents, only to find them languishing unworn in yet another closet.
This is why I'm thrilled to introduce today's Guest Blogger, Ivy Calvert. Unlike the stylists who push constant wardrobe refreshes or investment in expensive statement pieces, Ivy offers something I've always needed: practical advice for creating a realistic, versatile wardrobe that works across lifestyles and locations. Her approach resonates with me because she understands the unique challenges of those who move frequently, whether for diplomatic postings or expat adventures. Her tips aren't about chasing trends; they're about finding clarity in your closet and confidence in your personal style.
I hope you find her advice as refreshing and attainable as I do.
Guest Blog by Ivy Calvert
Whether you're heading to your next foreign service post or to a new country for an expat adventure, moving is the perfect opportunity to reset your wardrobe. As a personal stylist who works virtually with clients around the world—including diplomat families in Colombia, England, and Portugal—I know how a thoughtfully edited closet can ease the stress of a big move. I also know firsthand what it's like to pare down before a big move—I grew up an Army kid and remember the challenge of packing up before each new chapter!
One of the biggest lessons I've learned from years of styling (and moving) is that most people only wear 20% of their wardrobe 80% of the time. Preparing your closet before a move ensures you're only packing clothes that serve your new lifestyle and makes getting dressed in your new home effortless. Here are a few tips to get your started!
Start with a Mindset Reset
Before you dive into your closet, take a moment to consider how your life will look in your next destination. Will the climate be different? Will your routine shift—more formal events, more casual days, or more travel? Give yourself permission to release items that no longer fit the life you're moving into. This mindset shift helps you approach letting go with intention and purpose rather than fear and anxiety.
Edit with Purpose
Go through your closet piece by piece, asking yourself three key questions:
Do I wear this now?
Does this fit my body, lifestyle, and personal style?
Would I be excited to unpack this in my new home?
Anything that doesn’t check all three boxes can be sold, donated, or set aside for alterations. If you're not sure what to let go of, try on the piece and see how you feel—both physically and emotionally. Often, the way something makes you feel will give you the answer you need.
PRO-TIP: Watch out for old excuses like “but this was expensive” and “but I might fit into this again”. If any clothing, shoes, or accessories aren’t aligned with your current identity, it’s okay to let them go. In fact, it actually gives you MORE room to wear and focus on the clothes you love.
Organize for the Journey Ahead
Once you've edited down your wardrobe, group your remaining items by category—tops, bottoms, etc.—so you can easily see what you have. I recommend clear garment bags for delicate pieces (dresses with sequins or beads, suiting, etc.) and vacuum-sealed bags for regular clothes. This not only makes packing your clothes in boxes easier, but also gives you a head start on unpacking and organizing your closet in your new home.
Make a List of Gaps
As you're packing, you'll likely notice gaps in your wardrobe—whether it's a lightweight jacket for a warmer climate or versatile basics that work across different occasions. Keep a running list so you can shop intentionally once you're settled in your new location rather than making rushed purchases that don’t align with your style.
Get Styling Support
If you're feeling overwhelmed by the process, you're not alone. I work 100% virtually and can help you edit your closet, shop to fill the gaps, and create a wardrobe plan that works for your lifestyle—whether you’re getting ready for a move or already settled! You can book a complimentary Discovery Call to determine which service is right for you.
Moving is a chance to create a wardrobe that is aligned with who you are and where you're going. With a little planning, your closet can become one of the easiest parts of your next adventure!
Ivy's Bio
Personal stylist Ivy Calvert founded Calvert & Co. Styling to help multi-faceted women level up their personal and professional lives by elevating their style. She demystifies amazing style for amazing women using her signature IVY-Method. Working with women in-person in Nashville, Tennessee, and virtually, all over the world, she's passionate about building wardrobes that last the test of time. No more trend-chasing, shopping frustration, or stress because skinny jeans are going out of style! Because when you look good, you feel good, and good things happen.
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